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Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Friday, March 12, 2010

Accepting people for who they are...

Love is a two way street and anyone who claims to have ever loved understands the meaning of selfless love! To allow your heart the possibility of pain and to continue on with courage and bravery is what allows you to overcome the fear itself. Nothing in life is guaranteed, it's what you make of it. You can't expect someone to come into your life and be perfect and never let you down, because that is not realistic. This is how we learn each other, this is how we learn to trust. This is where boundaries are laid and priorities are set in place in  relationships. Not every individual will accept what another one will! (THOUGHT), and vice versa.You cannot assume that your current relationship will be any similar to the last. You cannot even expect for it to be anything other than exactly what it truly is in the very essence. Of course you can work to make it better, but you can't change or force people, it brings about a person and a relationship that is not genuine or true to themselves. It's best to accept people the way that they are and be patient with their timing. Otherwise, try and find the one that is "your perfect mate!"  (THOUGHT)...This is the unique thing about knowing people and allowing yourself to feel. We can't control another human being nor do we have any control on every single incident in our life. The best thing to do is live, love and learn. Live your life to your best ability and try to understand what your purpose is, so you can begin to fulfill it. Love people in your lives and even people that you come across, you may not know if God has brought an Angel before your presence and if we only love those that we know, what contribution are you really making? Learn from all your experiences and don't allow them to make you bitter, life is a learning experience and a journey all it's own! Embrace your life and your loved ones, tomorrow is not promised to any of us...
Until next time, God bless!

Friday, March 5, 2010

A woman's heart should be so hidden in God
that a man has to seek Him just to find her: 

a mans heart has to be so
hidden in God that he can find her, 

once finding her they can be one in
the heart of God.

I gave you my hand and you gave me yours,
And we danced till the night was through.
I gave you my love and you gave me yours,
It was like a dream come true.
I gave you my life and you gave me yours,
It was then I knew true love had begun.
I gave you my heart and you gave me yours,
And now two hearts are one.
D.G.S. 2001


Thursday, March 4, 2010

Against all odds...

In this post I used a lot of scripture as the main focus!

   Glory be to God who is Lord of my life! He is 100% definitely the answer to my problems, the courage to my fears, the boldness to my insecurities! He has never failed me and I trust that He never will! I glorify Him because He is far more than worthy! I magnify His holy name, I exhort Him and bring an offering of praise & worship from my lips! There is none like Him, He is the Alpha & the Omega-my beginning & end... Who has said that the Lord will not perform-has He not shown Himself with miraculous wonders and healings?! There is security in wisdom, therefore get wisdom and in all your getting, get understanding! Take firm hold of instruction and do not let go! Keep your heart with all diligence for out of it spring the issues of life. Let your eyes look straight ahead and your eyelids look right before you! Ponder the path of your feet and let all your ways be established. (Some of these verses are taken from the book of Proverbs Chptr.4)
   I write this today because sometimes we just need to re-affirm ourselves; and these things are reminders for me to stay focused and trust the Lord no matter the time or the situation! Being saved is not an easy ride, and Jesus never said it would be easy. In fact scripture tells us "... and if children (of God), then heirs-heirs of God, and joint heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with Him, that we may also be glorified together." (Romans 8:17)  So I looked up suffering in the context that it was used here in Romans. I used my Strong's Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible. This concordance also contains the Greek & Hebrew dictionary! So in my findings; the Greek word for suffering here simply means to experience pain jointly as Christ did! However, we obviously aren't being persecuted in the form of a crucifixion, but life's courses and certain instances in our life may be an abstract comparison of enduring trials & tribulation as Christ did during His earthly ministry! So in taking note of this and following Christ's example, I must persevere and count it all all joy when my flesh is struggling. In these moments my spiritual man is growing as I feed it & submit to the Word of God and follow His lead!

Monday, March 1, 2010

A Proud Woman...

Just Beautiful!!

What makes me weak? My fears.....

What makes me whole? My God.

What keeps me standing? My faith.

What makes me compassionate? My selflessness.

What makes me honest? My integrity.

What sustains my mind?
My quest for knowledge.

What teaches me all lessons? My mistakes.

What lift's my head high? My pride, not arrogance.

What if I can't go on? Not an option.

What makes me victorious? My courage to climb.

What makes me competent? My confidence .

What makes me sensual? My insatiable essence.

What makes me beautiful? My everything.

What makes me a man or woman? My heart .

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