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Friday, March 12, 2010

Accepting people for who they are...



Love is a two way street and anyone who claims to have ever loved understands the meaning of selfless love! To allow your heart the possibility of pain and to continue on with courage and bravery is what allows you to overcome the fear itself. Nothing in life is guaranteed, it's what you make of it. You can't expect someone to come into your life and be perfect and never let you down, because that is not realistic. This is how we learn each other, this is how we learn to trust. This is where boundaries are laid and priorities are set in place in  relationships. Not every individual will accept what another one will! (THOUGHT), and vice versa.You cannot assume that your current relationship will be any similar to the last. You cannot even expect for it to be anything other than exactly what it truly is in the very essence. Of course you can work to make it better, but you can't change or force people, it brings about a person and a relationship that is not genuine or true to themselves. It's best to accept people the way that they are and be patient with their timing. Otherwise, try and find the one that is "your perfect mate!"  (THOUGHT)...This is the unique thing about knowing people and allowing yourself to feel. We can't control another human being nor do we have any control on every single incident in our life. The best thing to do is live, love and learn. Live your life to your best ability and try to understand what your purpose is, so you can begin to fulfill it. Love people in your lives and even people that you come across, you may not know if God has brought an Angel before your presence and if we only love those that we know, what contribution are you really making? Learn from all your experiences and don't allow them to make you bitter, life is a learning experience and a journey all it's own! Embrace your life and your loved ones, tomorrow is not promised to any of us...
Until next time, God bless!

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